Summer Fun

Playing at trampoline park

Summer, a season I both long for and dread at the same time. On one hand, I love that my kids are home, on the other hand, my kids are home.

I remember when summer meant not worrying about time. Time to get up, time to go to bed, none of it mattered, because it was summer! Now, I have to make sure I get up, so my neuro spicy boy doesn't run and jump in the pool on his own, or take off to who knows where.

Summer used to feel like a blank canvas, but as a parent of an autistic child, I’ve learned that structure can be the difference between chaos and calm. This year, we’re building a summer filled with routines, sensory-friendly adventures, and plenty of breathing room.

We’re starting early with a calendar we can both see and update. Visual schedules help set expectations, and they give my child a sense of control—something we both appreciate. We’re blending low-stimulation outings (like early morning nature walks or quiet museum times) with simple joys at home: baking, LEGO masterpieces, and story hours.

Need a fun craft for the kids? My boy and I made these, He really loved it! Get yours here: https://www.stampinup.com/products/frog-friends-kit?demoid=2308889

The biggest shift in my mindset this year? Letting go of the idea that summer has to be “packed with fun.” Peace, predictability, and progress—those are our goals. And when hard moments come (because they will), we’ll ride them out together with grace and patience.

To all the other parents planning summer for their ASD kids: you’re not alone, and your version of summer magic is just as beautiful.

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